Dating & Friendship, Redefined

Find Love or Friendship-Your Choice

One platform, two paths. Whether you're looking for your perfect match or building your circle of supportive friends-find genuine connections with people who show up with intention.

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Features

Find Your Match or Your Tribe

Powerful tools to help you find love, build friendships, or both.

Love & Friendship

Choose your path-find romantic partners or build lasting friendships on one platform.

Safe & Verified

Every profile is verified to ensure authentic, trustworthy connections.

See Who Views You

Know who is interested-whether they're looking for love or friendship.

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Ready to connect? Find available dates or friends nearby instantly.

How It Works

Connection Dynamics

Choose how you show up in relationships. We match you with someone who complements your energy.

Provider and Receiver Roles

Two Paths

One Platform, Two Journeys

Whether you're seeking romance or friendship, we've got you covered.

Find Your Circle

Find Your Circle

Connect with like-minded women who value authentic, supportive friendships.

Meet Your Match

Meet Your Match

Discover partners who appreciate effort and genuine connection.

Community

See What People Are Talking About

Real conversations from our community. Join to share your thoughts.

AnonymousF28

"I've learned that chemistry is important, but emotional safety matters even more. Finding someone who makes you feel secure is everything."

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AnonymousF32

"How do you all handle the transition from texting to meeting in person? I always get nervous about first dates!"

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AnonymousF26

"Success story! After 3 months of putting myself out there, I finally met someone who genuinely listens and shows up consistently."

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Testimonials

Real Stories, Real Connections

"I came looking for love and found my partner within 3 months. The quality of people here is amazing!"

Sarah M.

Found Love on Benefactr

"After moving to a new city, I used Benefactr to find friends. Now I have an incredible circle of supportive women!"

Jessica T.

Found Friendship on Benefactr

Why Benefactr

Built for Women Who Know Their Worth

Find love or friendship-your choice

Build your circle of supportive friends

See who has viewed your profile

Meet Now for spontaneous dates or hangouts

Real-time messaging with connections

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